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You can’t protect yourself from getting hurt indefinitely; it will happen and you will get over it.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
We tend to be kinder to strangers than we are to ourselves.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
you can't ignore feelings. if you're drunk you can't just say "i'm not drunk" and then drive. just like if you're sad, you can't simply declare "i'm not sad" and be horny. you have to eat a big kebab and wait eight hours before you can drive after drinking. to get over feelings, you have to acknowledge them and find a way to get through them.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
"if it's happening behind closed doors between two fully consenting adults, who are we to judge?"
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
Perhaps what we should do is actually encourage our children to say no. And listen to and respect them when they do. Obviously, if they are saying "no" to eating any vegetables you're gonna have to call rank with them on that one. But if they don't wanna hug creepy Aunty Meredith, who they've only just met, then maybe don't make them. Women are socialized from such an early age to prioritize pleasing others over their own feelings. If we stop doing that, then more women are going to be empowered throughout their life to take themselves away from situations they aren't enjoying.
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porn is not sex education. in fact, it's the precise opposite. the vast majority of porn looks nothing like the sex that most people have.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
women are socialized from such an early age to prioritize pleasing others over their own feelings. if we stop doing that, then more women are going to be empowered throughout their life to take themselves away from situations they aren't enjoying.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
We have to stop playing along with the narrative that men are entitled to sex, that just because a man is a "nice guy". or because he takes a girl out on an extravagant date. Or because it's Valentine's Day and he took his girlfriend to Paris, he somehow deserves sex. Men are only entitled to sex when someone else wants to have sex with them. and for no other reason.
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the best we can do is educate everyone on what consent is and how to get it. consent is about human communication, which is messy and unreliable. we are always going to disagree sometimes. we have to keep talking about it, and normalize more communication before and during sex.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
Hating the way you look is not very fun. The majority of women have wished to change the way they look at some point in their life. This is because the media shows us only pictures of one type of women: The Slim White Lady. The Slim White Lady is then photoshopped so much that even other slim white ladies feel inferior to her. You do not need to look like The Slim White Lady to be beautiful, healthy or worthy. You are enough just as you are.
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It's not my fault that I hate my cellulite. The whole world told me it was bad. I believed them even though they are wrong.
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It could be tied to the feminist movement in the 1970s. Women started showing their hair as a sign of rebellion against men. So men started fetishizing women without body hair. Perhaps the bedroom started being the only place men could be "men", and so they wanted to be the only ones with body hair.
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The problem is, we don't choose what we believe...Throughout our lives, our parents, the media, our mates and school all plant beliefs in our heads that may or may not be true and helpful.
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Virginity isn't a medical term, it's a social construct.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
You are enough just as you are.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
"the problem is, we don't choose what we believe."
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
And then people started taking pictures of vaginas and putting them in magazines and. Later, on this thing called "the internet". And suddenly the vagina had its own set of beauty standards and became another thing for women to feel bad about. Porn only shows one type of vagina. This has led to people without this type of vagina feeling like there is something wrong with them. That is crap. No type, shape or appearance of genitals is superior to any other
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
If anyone removes their pubes even though they don't like doing it, that doesn't make them a bad feminist. It's the patriarchy's fault; fighting the patriarchy is hard work, and sometimes you need to pick your battles.
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Sex is very different from pastry. But the point is that what your first chocolate croissant is like doesn't matter, because once you have discovered chocolate croissants you can have as many as you like and they will vary in quality wildly throughout your whole life.
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Cake could make you happier than a flat stomach.
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I hate the word 'pussy". Maybe you love it and it makes you feel sexy. in which case ignore me. If someone is a cunt they are ferocious. if someone is a pussy they are scared (which I think is an insult to both vaginas and cats). I think the kind of guy who says pussy wants to try those positions that only exist on Pornhub and will give you a slipped disc. but that might be just my experience.
How to Have Feminist Sex, Flo Perry
you dont have to do something just because the society you grow up in expects it of you
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